Author: Julia Davis
Author title: Play Therapist, Julia Davis Associates; Author
Description: This article explores some of the challenges for adopters in the early days of becoming a family. An attachment and trauma-informed approach highlights the importance of recognising the impact of the child’s early life experiences which may include loss and trauma. In addressing the child’s fears and anxiety triggered by the transition to a new family, the significance of building a sense of safety and trust is emphasised. Ways to help children settle and begin to create a secure attachment relationship with their adopters are suggested. How to meet some of the challenges in helping children to eat, sleep and play well are explored – as well as the importance of adopters’ own self-care and support. 

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