Mary trained as a nurse in the 1970s and then as a childbirth educator with the National Childbirth Trust (NCT). Over her 30 years career, she worked with mothers and fathers across the UK and trained early parent educators in Europe, Australia and New Zealand. She was a member of the 2008 UK Expert Reference Group which devised a national antenatal education programme, ‘Preparation for Birth and Beyond’ (PBB), focusing on normal birth, mental health and sensitive parenting. In 2009, Mary became Professor of Perinatal Education at the University of Worcester, a post she held for 13 years. She has published extensively in the academic press, including books on antenatal education, teenage pregnancy and home birth, as well as chapters in three editions of ‘Myles Textbook for Midwives’. Her research into women’s and men’s experience of early labour, what women want from antenatal classes, health visitors’ engagement with new fathers, and young parents’ sources of information and support has been published in peer-reviewed journals. Eleven years ago, she launched the International Journal of Birth and Parent Education which now has a readership across the world. Since her retirement in 2022, Mary has continued as the UK Editor of the Journal.
PRESENTATION
Diane Baumrind put forward the concept of ‘parenting styles’ in the 1960s, inspiring a mass of academic research and much interest among practitioners and parents which persists unto the present day. But how useful is the notion of a ‘parenting style’? Are there universal parenting styles or are they dependent on culture, race and socio-economic variables? Is talking to parents about parenting styles helpful to them, or are we backing parents into a corner where they feel judged and in constant danger of not being ‘good enough’? Mary’s talk will explore these issues and try to suggest some helpful ways of supporting individual parenting styles.